Month Five. Fortitude to love myself expands my hope and kindness.
There is a simple way to see if I am living in a place of loving myself. Am I making good, life-giving choices for myself, stoking the fires within to bring my best self to the world? Are my thoughts, words, and actions kind? If not, I need to adjust my heart.
Month Five. Fortitude to love myself expands my hope and kindness.
To show mercy means to have compassion for someone who should be punished or could be treated harshly. It means showing undeserved forgiveness or kindness. Mercy is given by a person in authority, who is also often the one who has been wronged. To show mercy is to offer relief to someone in a miserable state.
Month Five. Fortitude to love myself expands my hope and kindness.
Looking for God’s Goodness in contemplation and prayer. When I choose to live life, I become life. When I don’t, I’m not contributing/offering my best self to this one precious life I have to live. Today we contemplate a reflection from Word on Fire on what it means to live life.
Month Five. Fortitude to love myself expands my hope and kindness.
How many times in a moment do I say I’m going to do something and then get distracted and don’t follow through? , This can include instances when I’m hanging onto anger towards someone that I need to let go. Recently I was pondering this thought by St. Camille’s about what commitment means. “Commitment is doing what you said you would do, after the feeling you said it in has passed.” Integrity is a quality of love.
Month Five. Fortitude to love myself expands my hope and kindness.
Lord, I give you my soul with all its powers, my body with all its senses, my heart with all its senses, my heart with all its affections so my actions can be guided by your Divine plan.
Month Five. Fortitude to love myself expands my hope and kindness.
Living in the now, being present in the moment, guarantees us the protection of God. It is in the stretches of time when I anxiously anticipate the events of the future that I cheat myself out of the security God offers me right now not loving myself well.
Month Five. Fortitude to love myself expands my hope and kindness.
Am I resistant to the events, the situations, the many people who come into my life that block the growth I am offered every day? While learning to love myself, I’m seeing it is good for me to pause, reflect, and see if I’m standing in my own way.
Month Five. Fortitude to love myself, expands my hope and kindness.
Looking for God’s Goodness in contemplation and prayer. James Clear, author of “Atomic Habits: Tiny Changes, Remarkable Results,” says we often overprioritize intensity over consistency, but consistency is what matters most when it comes to making progress. This practice is not intense. It can be done in literally one minute. If/when you have time for more involved practices (meditations, journaling, prayer, contemplation, whatever speaks to you), that’s awesome and worthwhile. Otherwise, something like this is a useful go-to.