There are different reasons we turn back toward God, and naming them honestly can help us see where we truly are on the journey.
The first kind of turning, what tradition calls imperfect contrition, happens when we recognize the messiness of our choices and feel the weight of where they lead. Fear wakes us up. It nudges us toward change and opens a small space where grace can begin to work.
The second kind, perfect contrition is rooted in love. It rises when we remember how good God is and simply don’t want to wound that relationship. It’s tender, personal, and rooted in affection rather than anxiety. Over time, this kind of turning reshapes us from the inside out.
Both matter. Both can begin the journey.
But love is what deepens it.
So I invite you to sit with one of the following questions and share your heart with God:
- What motivates your turning, fear of consequences or love for the One who calls you home.
- Where do you notice resistance in habits, relationships, or quiet inner patterns.
- How does God’s goodness show up for you in ways that make you want to live differently.
- What kind of freedom are you longing for and what small step might open that door.
Smitten With Goodness 