One of the most challenging and rewarding experiences in my life is my vocation as a parent. I’ve been blessed beyond measure with two beautiful children and three bonus children, one of which was born twenty-eight years ago today.
Parental relationships reflect back to us the various parts of ourselves we may want to hide. They are a gift that allow us to be healed into wholeness, where we can experience on some level what God’s love is like and to love another as God has called us to do. Our role as parent is really one of teacher and guide. We are to walk alongside our children during the seasons of life, help them find purpose and meaning in the world, and love them beyond measure.
In turn, our children are a gift to us. My son and first born changed my heart in a way I never knew was possible. Remembering his infectious smile and twinkle in his eye brings me joy to this day. That smile has gotten me through some pretty tough days.
As I contemplate the gift of my son today, I want to remind him:
I’m so proud of you, your successes and that I believe in you.
You are courageous, hard-working, responsible, and trustworthy.
Don’t let your fears and anxiety be your driver but let your heart guide the way.
You make my heart happy with your tender heart.
God has a specific plan of love and service for you. It’s exciting to see you discover that plan as you become a husband and doctor.
You have amazing gifts. You are curious, brave, caring, disciplined, and always do the right thing.
You are loyal beyond measure.
Know that I’m so grateful for you, like being with you and love you, always and forever.
Thank you, Lord, for the gift of my son. Let me praise Your goodness over him all the days.
Smitten With Goodness 